tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3159914251931215353.post8263390590418899782..comments2023-03-28T09:40:41.481+01:00Comments on in the midden of nowhere: weary, emotionally and physically.......Herzbluthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00695650519919976473noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3159914251931215353.post-25095081857901946632007-11-11T20:13:00.000+00:002007-11-11T20:13:00.000+00:00Dear wee one,I want to offer my encouragement in d...Dear wee one,<BR/>I want to offer my encouragement in detatching from a Vamp person. Not repeating past patterns is hard, but you sound very focused on doing what is best for you. Way to go:) <BR/>Sending you big hugs and warm sunshine from Tucson, AZ. Kathy<BR/>http:/knittincacher.blogspot.comKChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17425537083457059609noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3159914251931215353.post-65364599473514113162007-11-11T00:22:00.000+00:002007-11-11T00:22:00.000+00:00Unless people have a debilitating disease, that le...Unless people have a debilitating disease, that leaves one feeling like they are dying but looking well, they will not understand UNLESS they are empathetic and perhaps know you well. I ma lucky. My friends and my partner can all SEE when my FMS or OA or RA or whatever is bad. In fact, they tell ME when to stop or slow down.<BR/>Good for you for finding the strength to separate yourself from a toxic person. Best thing for you. No need for guilt. You are NOT here to suffer abuse silently, no matter what the other person's problems may be.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14864658805462324550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3159914251931215353.post-5218731380412020692007-11-09T12:47:00.000+00:002007-11-09T12:47:00.000+00:00Today I was feeling a little sorry for myself beca...Today I was feeling a little sorry for myself because I can't go to a weekend class because I can't. I have Lupus (a kind of cousin to fibro) plus other problems and some kind of bug has set up housekeeing in my body and I can't shake it....or it is just the Lupus acting up. I honestly can't tell the difference. Through the socknitters group, I stumbled upon your site and read your Nov 8th blog. I understand completely, I too have overdone it by throwing in a pile of laundry. Or taking a trip to the grocery store. Not fair, but what do you do. The hardest is not being able to do, but the second is people who don't get it and you feel like a useless hunk of protoplasm. <BR/>Bottom line, hang in there, remember you are NOT alone and do something fun (socks? reading?) and low energy until the good day comes. It will.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3159914251931215353.post-25424541112041267052007-11-08T13:00:00.000+00:002007-11-08T13:00:00.000+00:00got connected through sock knitters...soft gentle ...got connected through sock knitters...soft gentle hugs...I have the same problems with my fibro. Its tough to find middle ground on good days so that you have some reserve for a bad day. Hugs..and have a good day, in spite of it all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com